How and where do I go to learn how to make a 3D game with DirectX and c++?

First question, have you at least learned the basics of C++ with console applications?

Well, before you begin making a game with DirectX, you first have to get acquainted with the APIs themselves.

Here is a pretty decent resource for Direct3D:
http://www.rastertek.com/tutdx11.html

As Avilius said, you have to learn the very basics before moving on to graphics.

You guys don't need to worry about what I already know. You need to worry about answering the actual question.

As Avilius sent
http://www.rastertek.com/tutdx11.html

make sure you spend enough time in making your basics (foundation) strong enough to take complex ideas as well
best of luck